Tuesday, September 2, 2008

search for a right match

this is not a story of mine but it is about my friend Nishant and his quest to find a perfect match for his marraige. just six months ago he decided to settle down and wished to have a happy marraige life with an extremely gorgeous gal of his age. he did lots of homework like 'which is the best matrimonial site which has genuine profiles as well as it has profiles which can match with his standard.', 'what's the charge for a matrimonial advertisement of specific number of words or specific space in an individual national newspaper for three editions.', 'What kind of proper words should be used to convey his precise set of parameters for his match'. the decision to marry at young age of 24 yrs (next month he would be 25 yrs old) is his self analysis to find real happiness in life. he explains to me...most of time we spend our precious time to find a girl friend which is basically below par of our status (in terms of IIT degree as well as income) that causes regret later on even if we get that kind of girl friend. where as gorgeous gals don't even think of us as we lack social contact with them to continue any kind of relationship which she deserves to have. what is the end result...we just end up spoiling our time for useless purpose like searching/watching a gal in forum mall or cursing almighty to be unfair with us. so, the best route for find a right gal for talented guys like us is arranged marraige. being 5'11" tall, slim, IIT educated guy, currently earning only 10 lacs per annum, he has firm belief to get proposal from only exceptionally fair gal from high profile family. with prospect of not losing any potential beauty queen, he relaxed his caste criteria for his match after having a long serious persuasive discussion with his mom. but what makes him sad after giving a 10K ad in newspaper and having a 5k profile at matrimonial site, he has received interests only from beautiful gals but not from single extremely beautiful gal. he is not able to understand why an average gal (she may be enough beautiful for others like me.) sends her profile inspite of he has clearly mentioned height:5'6", age:24 yrs or below and excellent look for his match. what he does is only three things...he reads her profile...he makes fun of her foolishness to get noticed by him...he deletes her mail. he has rejected 50 profiles ranging from an mba grad from top college to software professional earning equivalent salary at elite firms. his precise set of beauty parameters has amazed and little shocked his mom and sis. Once he had a fight with his sis when he said a gal 'average looking' who was 'extremely gorgeous' acording to his sis. rest family members as well as me have good fun time to discuss about his marraige plan and we are not sure to predict when this guy will finally find his right match. moral of story: if you are an extremely beautiful gal then watch out these guys.

6 comments:

Nishant Shrivastava said...

thanks for so much space in your space critical blog, mw oblidged ;)

Chauhan Vaibhav said...

Who is this NISHANT????????
Anyways.... none of my biz .....
my best wishes for his future endeavors..... he'll definitely get one soon.... :)

Anisha said...

Awesome blog you've got here. You're a hard worker and yeah you'll succeed in life ;) Anyway good luck!! <3

sparrow said...

probably his matrimonial advertisements are not reaching bollywood people....

Anonymous said...

plss nishant grow up u dnt need to saerch for a gal...u will get a nice gal like u want...have patience...waqt se pehle aur kismat se jyada kabhi kisiko nahi milta...

Anonymous said...

this is for nishant
dude grow up !!
beauty is really skin deep, maybe u need to be with some girl to realize that. Its good to have a fairly attractive girl as your wife but in the end what matters is whether your personality can match.